Is hate stronger than love or is pain a deeper emotion ?

What is is that bothers you when someone is insensitively rude to you?
What is it that hurts? Is it the ego?
Whose ego is it, the other person or yours?
Is it because you have had build a super ego which you never expected someone to challenge or were you imaging living in a benevolent society?

Some of us have been hurt every-time this has happened to us - literally 'every-time'.
We have felt cheated by the person and powerless before the brute. Physically we have felt hot fumes raising from our foreheads.

We could then see or imagine the sense of victory in their thoughts and their posture.This would be unbearable to us.Nature's inequitableness saddens us.Some of us have tried the new age techniques- imagined hugging the beast and forgiving him for doing what he did. But the heaviness is hard to go.

Is hate stronger than love or is pain a deeper emotion ?